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TruthWise for Men

Say it straight. Say it well.

A private place to work out what you want to say before you text, talk, react, or shut down. Five coaches, one for each kind of conversation, and every call is yours.

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Private by design
No judgment
At your pace

How it works

Think it through before you send it or say it.

Bring the moment as it is. TruthWise helps you sort it out. You decide what to use.

Bring the situation

Describe the moment in your own words. Change the details or use a made-up example if you like.

Pick the kind of help

Polish a message, check what a text means, prepare a hard talk, name a feeling, or rehearse.

Review and decide

Read the suggestions, edit anything, and make the final choice. TruthWise never sends a message for you.

Your coaches

One for every kind of conversation.

Five coaches of their own, plus Alex, the practice partner.

AlbertPolish It

JamesTruthCheck

JeffHard Talk

DamonFeelings

AlexYour practice partner

MarquesLevel Up (Journal)

Fictional characters. The coaches are fictional characters created by the TruthWise team. Their names, stories, schools and teams are made up. They are AI, not real people, and they are not a substitute for a therapist or professional help.

Get to know them

Six coaches, six very different stories.

Polish It coach

Hi, I am Albert.

Age: 29
From: Boston, Massachusetts
School: Boston College, history and communications
Favorite team: Boston Celtics
Favorite food: New England clam chowder in a bread bowl
Hobbies: Chess in the park, restoring old lamps, reading biographies

A funny story. Albert once drafted a text to his landlord, then three revisions, then a flowchart. His roommate asked if he was filing a lawsuit. It was about a parking spot. He sent version two, got a thumbs up in four seconds, and still keeps the flowchart framed.

TruthCheck coach

Hi, I am James.

Age: 31
From: Seattle, Washington
School: University of Washington, statistics
Favorite team: Seattle Mariners
Favorite food: Pho with far too much basil
Hobbies: Mechanical keyboards, hiking with a spreadsheet of trails, board game night

A funny story. A friend texted James one word: "fine." He built a chart of every time she had ever said it. The chart said she meant it most of the time. He called anyway. It was about a birthday, and she asked why he sounded so worried. He deleted the chart, but not the data.

Hard Talk coach

Hi, I am Jeff.

Age: 34
From: Houston, Texas
School: Texas A&M, mechanical engineering
Favorite team: Houston Texans
Favorite food: A brisket plate with extra pickles
Hobbies: Pickup softball, grilling, fixing things that are not broken

A funny story. Jeff told his best friend, "I will say this plainly: your fantasy draft was a crime." Then he spent twenty minutes explaining that he meant it kindly. The friend printed the sentence and taped it to the fridge. Jeff is now the league commissioner as a form of probation.

Feelings coach

Hi, I am Damon.

Age: 28
From: Detroit, Michigan
School: University of Michigan, kinesiology
Favorite team: Detroit Lions
Favorite food: A Coney dog with chili and onions
Hobbies: Morning runs, coaching youth basketball, building a playlist for every mood

A funny story. Damon made a playlist called "Feelings, Day 1" to help him find the words. By Day 9 it was called "Okay, Real Talk." His sister says it is the first time he has ever sent her a track list with an apology at the end.

Practice partner

Hi, I am Alex.

Age: 25
From: Portland, Oregon
School: University of Oregon, theater
Favorite team: Portland Timbers
Favorite food: A veggie burrito the size of her forearm
Hobbies: Improv, bouldering, volunteering at a community radio station

A funny story. Alex plays the person on the other side of the hard talk, and she is a little too good at it. A friend asked her to help him practice asking for a fair rent split. She said, "Let me think about it," and went to make tea. He got the fair split on the real try the next day. She says nobody has ever beaten her at pausing.

Level Up (Journal) coach

Hi, I am Marques.

Age: 27
From: Oakland, California
School: San Jose State, graphic design
Favorite team: Golden State Warriors
Favorite food: Birria tacos from the truck on the corner
Hobbies: Sketching skylines, lifting, reading on rooftops

A funny story. Marques promised himself one honest line in his notebook every night. Week one: "tired." Week two: "still tired." Week three: "tired, but I called my dad." He calls that his first real level up.

Coming soon

Not in the stores yet.

TruthWise for Men arrives with the next app update. The app you can download today has the original look and coaches. Email support@mytruthwise.com and we will write to you when it is ready.

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